Divorce Poison: How to Protect Your Family from Bad-mouthing and Brainwashing
In this classic guide to preventing & overcoming parental alienation, Dr. Warshak helps parents shield children from the crossfire of divorce and separation.
Your ex-spouse is bad-mouthing you to your children, perhaps even trying to turn them against you.
If you handle the situation ineffectively, you could lose your children's respect, their affections—even, in extreme cases, lose contact with them.
The conventional advice is to do nothing for fear that any response could result in greater injury to the children.
But with twenty-five years of helping families, Dr. Richard Warshak is convinced that a passive approach just leaves parents feeling helpless. And the damage to children is considerable, particularly when warring parents enlist children as allies in the battle. The problems range from tainted parent-child relationships, in which children are disrespectful or reluctant to show their affection, to a disturbance in which children virtually disown one of their parents and all the relatives on that side of the family. [Note: Clicking on the book cover above will take you to Amazon.com where you can find various editions of Divorce Poison. As an Amazon Associate I earn a small fee from qualifying purchases. These modest earnings help to defray the cost of maintaining this website.]
Divorce Poison offers specific advice to protect children from the results of their parents' animosity. In it, you will learn how to:
• respond when your children join forces with your ex
• react if your children refuse to see you
• answer rude and hateful behavior
• insulate children from the harmful effects of bad-mouthing
• identify and correct your own contributions to parent-child conflicts
• defend against false accusations of brainwashing
• choose the best therapist and lawyer
• reconcile with children after years of estrangement
Dr. Warshak reveals:
- the typical behaviors of alienated children,
- how and why parents manipulate their children,
- seven rules for responding effectively to bad-mouthing without succumbing to the impulse to retaliate in kind, and
- how the controversial diagnosis parental alienation syndrome is used in court to take children away from parents or to regain contact with alienated children.
This groundbreaking work gives parents powerful strategies to preserve and rebuild loving relationships with their children--and provides legal and mental health professionals who work with families in which there have been accusations of alienation, whether true or false, practical advice to help their clients and safeguard the welfare of children.
Whether they are perpetrators of divorce poison, victims of it, or both, parents who heed Dr. Warshak's advice will enable their children to maintain love and respect for two parents who no longer love, and may not respect, each other.
